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January 19 Not forever!There is one thing fixed about life and that is nothing is fixed in life. When you feel things are settling down and everything is in your favor, suddenly something happen and life become complete mess. We keep try to settle things in your favor, but life has different plans.
Things look worst when it related to emotional need. How brave you are and how much you know things well but when its about your emotional need you feel helpless. You loose all your wisdom and feel paralyzed. So what we do to get over such situation. You cannot be bold, as it not about career, money its about the most important part of your life. After all life has no meaning without love. Some one rightly said " Love is the sweetest way to hurts someone"-Ghanni (ma..younger bro think so..!)
I prefer to write it down when things didn't look great. Its like talking to yourself. Life is always good when you keep things light but it get complex the movement you start talking it seriously. There is no harm if everything is in your favor but things get worst when things didn't work out well. Sometime I think when we are wrong .Is it when we keep flirting or its when we are sincere.
My past experience had suggested me that I rule when ever I hardly bother for others but when I did I got hurt. The good soul sometime warn us that don't do something it may be not good. But casual brain say go for it . Its part of life.
Acceptance is the key. Life moves on. Being happy or being sad is just state of mind. Nothing in life can be so indispensable that you can't live without it. Yeah it true if he/ she was there may be life have been more beautiful. But life still can be more beautiful without them. So move on! January 15 Ek choti se love storyThis story is about a guy and a girl who meet on orkut, share their liking, find so many things in common and fall in love . It is as fractious as it sound but at same time as real as you can think off. Some time life gets more fascinating then any friction. We love thinking out of box. We know its not real but again we love it because we are in love. There is one good complex thing that is hard to ignore. That's when you both share too many things in common, some time it actually work against us. Like two magnet repulsive when you bring the same pole together.This is five days love story.Its started so fast and ended even faster then expected.Living some sad feeling in both heart. I still remember girl always keep insisting to guy to slow down his pace but their is saying is blind and it become furious when two hot get together.To getting started with the story. I have divide it according to days. Since it get started and get over by day 5.
Day 1:
Its was real boring weekend. I was sitting as usual on my laptop. Looking something exciting. After doing lots of research I opted orkut. Being an automobile lover usually I love to write reviews and help people with their technical and generic question regarding their car. But that day the activity was lesser than expected and hence I had opted to look something else. where I get more active people. I had decided to join my next best choice yeah it was social community gathering of Rajputs. When I had started looking around in the community I really didn't find a single post telling anything or into any serious discussion. Being active in taking initiatives I had decided to join the community and start some good threads. I had tried to loop in all who were moderating the community. I got tremendous support and response. Among everyone she was also there with least expected response.The day ended with hot discussion no personal interaction. I was more passionate about community promotion then anything else.
Day 2:
As per my plan the day two begins with load of creative work but no love. I was even thinking that time that something special going to happen in my life. Get loads of appreciation and from everyone in community. But then something happen was a repulsive scrap from her in my scrapbook. With true sprit I had put his point of view. But as expected there was no response from her end. Discussion get to it climax and finally everyone realizes the importance of so serious work that the community require to keep it essence . The thread ended and I started doing the good work. Suddenly I had got a witty scrap from her . That change everything yeah it turn out to be active discussion and that was the first formal interaction .
Day 3:
We start sharing. what we believe what we like think start working so well that it bring them magically close to each other. Relation and interaction was moving at fast pace.I was feeling like she is the chosen one whom god has specially design for him. I am born with nature of go getting and hence didn't believe in opportunity to come rather love to go and get hold of opportunity. I proposed her but her reaction was more confusing she wanted things to happen but at slow pace. Passion of love was so high that it make me feel nothing is that can keep both of us apart.
Day 4:
Girl came back saying that she didn't slept whole night and she is feeling like we are going at really high speed. I took it as positive feedback even though I was bothered about her sleep. Day 4 was the most complete day after long time. I was so happy that I found someone who is just perfect to be my better half. I was doing my all work at double pace unaware about the fact that it didn't going to last for long. There were two things working against this relationship. . My over enthusiasm and her being to precise in her communication. When we are in positive frame of mind we generally get blind and don't want to see around and that when we fall. Some thing similar was about to happen. Being famous and always in company of girls I started think that since now I have commitment I should better start working on the change to make the relation more stable. As I found her being quite simple and straight in her approach. To show my extent of love I changed my orkut status to committed from being single. This was bold step especially knowing the fact that the girl is not located local rather she is sitting 10000 miles away from you .
Day 5 : Judgment day
I got up little early , may be because I was greedy . I wanted to spend more time with her before she get to sleep. We started talking and suddenly she disappear from chat . That was first time realized that without her I m feeling incomplete . I was missing her like anything. I was feeling un-easy. Finally after about an hour I found her back online . I had told her everything that I felt in those few hours. Today she again warned me to slow down in my going . And she had started telling about her and her family. I had come to realized that the girl I was talking all these days, actually belong to US. Now things which were looking like possible started turning out impossible for me. I started feeling like loosing her and more then that I was disturbed that why she didn't discuss all this before. She asked me to check her profile and read about her . I read it again and then I realized that I fall for an NRI. Fearing the end of this dream relation that getting more in shape. I had started blaming her for all this , may be at back of my mind I had fear of loosing her was turning in to anger. She was confused as she was expecting me to know all these things. On the other hand all I was looking her and nothing else. Being in shocked for an hour by the time I had realized and tried to calm myself, she had already decided her mind to move on. I was feeling helpless as the only communication we were using all these 4-5 days was orkut and gtalk.
I had realized for the first time how important she become in my life and life was looking colorless and pale without her. But before my realization. she turn out to be more impulsive and deleted herself from my friend list and gmail account. My love was dieing and I was helpless in pain. I was in condition which I can't discuss with anyone.After all people were going to laugh on me saying " how can you fall for some one in 5 days and that's on orkut and gtalk. " But its me who knows what she means to me. This is my love story where I mate a wonderful girl I fall in love with her, she rocks my world and then I lose her .
What all I can call this incident then " Ek choti se love story ". After all we dream , we plan , we want but god always has something else in his mind. Alas ! If we continued this relation..! After all we all need one with whom we like to spent rest of our life. December 01 HOW HAPPY IS LIFE WITHOUT A GIRLFRIENDReasons why LIFE without a Girl Friend is cool . .1. You can stare at any Girl....... .2. You don't have to spend money on her. .3. You won't get boring result in ur board papers. .4. No girlfriend, no emotional blackmailing. .5. If u don't have a girlfriend, she can't dump u. .6. Having a girlfriend is hot, not having a girlfriend is automatically cool, and every one loves to be a cool guy. .7. This can be more to life than just waiting for the bloody phone to ring. .8. You won't have to tolerate someone else defining, "right" and "wrong" for u. .9. Girlfriend can get so possessive that you can't do anything according ur wishes anymore. .10. You can buy gifts for mom, dad, sis or grandpa instead of a girlfriend and have a happier family life. .11. You won't have to waste paper writing love letters No more endless waiting for ur date to arrive at some weird shop\place. .12. You can have more friends, as u will have more time for them. .13. You wont have to see boring love stories instead of action thrillers. .14. You wont have to tell lie to anybody and, therefore, u'll sin less. .15. You can have good night's sleep-no need to dream about her. .16. You wont have to fight over having a 'special' friend with ur folks. .17. No nonstop nonsense. .18. You wont have drown in the pool of her tears. .19. No tension. .20. You can be "urself" .21. You wont have to hide your telephone bills...... . .......thats why i yam what i yam !!!! February 08 flirting is an artFLIRTING IS AN ART :
10. Flirting is all about attitude. A good flirt is self-confident and not afraid to take risks. Be enthusiastic, open and positive. It works!
guys -tough yet complexGuys -tough and complex If u treat him nicely, he say u are in LOVE with him; If u don't, he say u are PROUD. If u dress nicly, he say u r trying to LURE him; If u don't u are from DUMBO. If u ARGUE with him , he say u are STUBBORN; If u keep QUIET, he say u have no BRAINS. If u are SMARTER than him , he'll lose FACE; If he is SMATER than u , he is GREAT. If u don't love him , he tries to POSSESS u; If u love him , he will try to LEAVE u . If u don't Let him KISS u, he say u don't love him; If u let him KISS ! he say u are CHEAP. If u tell him your PROBLEM , he says u are TROUBLESOME; If u don't , he say that u don't TRUST him. If u SCOLD him , u are like NANNY to him ; If he SCOLD u, it is because he CARES for u . If u BREAK your PROMISE , u cannot be TRUSTED; If he BREAKS his , he is FORCED to do so. If u SMOKE , u are Bad girl; If he SMOKE ,he is GENTALMAN. If u do WELL in your Exams ,he say its LUCK; If he does WELL , its BRAINS. If u HURT him, u are CRUEL; If he HURTS u , u are too SENSITIVE ! ! ** GUYS are in fact really so troublesome & soo hard to please ! I just wanna add one more... If u say all these to a guys ,they will say it's not true... But if u don't , they say you are selfish....( '_ ')
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